Rebuilding Trust After Broken Commitments

team-cultureMid10–15 min
How to Use This: Run this roleplay with 2–3 people, or practice solo by taking on each role. Add challenges to test adaptability. Reflect afterward to identify what worked well.

Roleplay Scenario

Scenario Overview

A recent project milestone was missed due to unforeseen challenges and some internal miscommunications, which has affected team morale and trust. This roleplay will help the team address these issues constructively, rebuild trust, and foster a culture of openness and continuous improvement.

Roles & Setup

Role A – Team Lead (You)
You're aware of the recent missed milestone and want to facilitate a constructive discussion to rebuild trust.
Your goal: Encourage open communication, acknowledge issues without assigning blame, and work together on a plan to prevent future issues.

Role B – Team Member
You're feeling the impact of the missed milestone and are concerned about how it reflects on the team's performance.
Your goal: Express your concerns constructively, share observations, and contribute ideas for improvement.

Role C – Product Manager (Optional)
You're concerned about the project's timeline and stakeholder trust but want to support the team in finding solutions.
Your goal: Balance expectations and support the team in addressing root causes.

Suggested Openers

Team Lead:

  • “Thanks for joining, everyone. We missed our milestone, and it’s important we talk about what happened and how we can improve.”
  • “Let’s have a chat about the challenges we faced with the last milestone. How can we turn this into a learning opportunity?”

Team Member:

  • “I’ve been thinking about the milestone we missed. I believe there were a few areas where better communication could have helped.”
  • “I’m worried about how this affects our team’s reputation. I’d like to discuss how we can ensure better alignment in the future.”

Product Manager:

  • “I’m here to help us figure out what went wrong and how we can improve. Let’s talk about how to better our communication and execution.”
  • “I’d like to understand more about the challenges you faced and how we can adjust our process moving forward.”

Sample Roleplay in Action

Team Lead:
“Thanks for coming together. Missing the milestone was tough for all of us. Let’s discuss what happened and how we can strengthen our approach going forward.”

Team Member:
“I think part of the issue was miscommunication about priorities. Some tasks got delayed because we weren’t fully aligned.”

Product Manager:
“I noticed there were some changes in priorities from stakeholders that might not have been communicated clearly. How can we improve this?”

Team Lead:
“Communication seems to be a key area for improvement. How about we start with quick daily stand-ups to align on priorities and potential blockers?”

Team Member:
“That sounds helpful. We could also use a shared document to track any priority changes so everyone stays informed.”

Product Manager:
“Great idea. I’ll make sure to provide clearer updates from stakeholders. Let’s also set up regular reviews to check our progress.”

Team Lead:
“Perfect. Let’s commit to these practices and check in next week to see how they're working. I appreciate everyone’s openness and willingness to improve.”

Post-Scenario Tools

Curveball Mode (Optional)

Introduce one of these challenges mid-roleplay to test adaptability:

  • A team member is hesitant to speak up due to fear of blame.
  • New, unexpected priorities are introduced during the conversation.
  • Stakeholders express frustration during the meeting.

Reflection Checklist

As the Team Lead:

  • Did you create a safe space for open dialogue?
  • Did you focus on solutions rather than assigning blame?
  • Did you facilitate a clear plan for improvement?

As a Team Member:

  • Did you express your concerns constructively?
  • Did you contribute ideas for positive change?
  • Did you feel heard and respected during the discussion?

As the Product Manager:

  • Did you support the team without adding pressure?
  • Did you offer constructive feedback and suggestions?
  • Did you help align expectations with stakeholders?

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Focusing on blame rather than solutions
  • Ignoring team members’ input or concerns
  • Failing to set clear, actionable steps for improvement

Pro Tip

Rebuilding trust takes time, but fostering a culture of openness and continuous improvement can lead to a stronger, more resilient team. Approach these discussions with empathy and a focus on collective success.