Giving & Receiving Feedback Across Team Boundaries

feedbackMid10–15 min
How to Use This: Run this roleplay with 2–3 people, or try it solo by voicing each role. Add curveballs to test adaptability. Reflect afterward to evaluate the interaction.

Roleplay Scenario

Scenario Overview

Your development and design teams are working together on a new product feature. Recently, there have been misunderstandings regarding deliverables and timelines, causing delays and some frustration. You need to engage in a constructive feedback session to improve collaboration, address concerns without assigning blame, and establish a more effective workflow.

Roles & Setup

Role A – Engineer (You)
You’ve noticed recurring issues in the handoff from design to development, leading to rework and missed deadlines.
Your goal: Provide constructive feedback, understand the design team's challenges, and propose solutions for smoother collaboration.

Role B – Designer
You’ve experienced pushback on design changes and feel that your input is sometimes overlooked.
Your goal: Share your perspective on the challenges faced, listen to feedback from the engineering side, and work toward a collaborative solution.

Suggested Openers

Engineer:

  • “Hey, do you have a few minutes to talk about our recent project handoffs? I think there are some ways we can improve our process.”
  • “I’ve noticed some hiccups in our workflow lately, and I’d love to hear your thoughts on how we can address them together.”

Designer:

  • “Sure, I’ve been noticing that too. Let’s talk about how we can better align our processes and expectations.”
  • “Absolutely. I’d like to share some observations from the design side and hear your thoughts as well.”

Sample Roleplay in Action

Engineer:
“Hey, do you have a few minutes? I've been thinking about our recent project handoffs, and I noticed that some of the final designs we got were a bit different from earlier versions. It led to some rework on our side. How do you think we can make this better?”

Designer:
“Yeah, I’ve noticed that too. Sometimes we get late feedback from stakeholders, which can lead to those changes. I get how that could disrupt your timelines. What do you think would help us better manage these changes?”

Engineer:
“Maybe we can set up a consistent feedback loop where any changes post-initial approval are clearly documented and communicated. We could also have a joint review session before finalizing designs to catch potential issues early.”

Designer:
“That sounds like a solid plan. We could also create a shared document to track changes and decisions, so everyone stays informed. How does that sound to you?”

Engineer:
“Perfect. Let’s start by scheduling regular check-ins and setting up a shared space for documentation. I think this will help us stay aligned and avoid last-minute surprises.”

Designer:
“Great, I’ll draft a proposal for these changes and share it with the team for feedback. Thanks for bringing this up—it’s important that we streamline our workflow.”

Post-Scenario Tools

Curveball Mode (Optional)

Add one of these twists to increase complexity and test adaptability:

  • A new design change is introduced mid-conversation, requiring immediate feedback.
  • A stakeholder joins the conversation unexpectedly, offering conflicting priorities.
  • One party misunderstands a key point, leading to potential misalignment.

Reflection Checklist

As the Engineer:

  • Did you communicate feedback constructively and focus on solutions?
  • Did you actively listen to the designer’s perspective?
  • Did you propose actionable steps to improve collaboration?

As the Designer:

  • Did you remain open to feedback and avoid defensiveness?
  • Did you clearly communicate your challenges and needs?
  • Did you contribute to developing a mutually agreeable solution?

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Focusing on blame rather than solutions.
  • Allowing the discussion to become defensive or adversarial.
  • Concluding without clear, actionable next steps.

Pro Tip

When giving and receiving feedback, aim to build a feedback culture that emphasizes growth and collaboration. This approach fosters stronger inter-team relationships and more effective project outcomes.